Hi Ms. Angel,
I was using my boyfriend’s computer. I wasn’t trying to snoop, but I did see some of his search history, and found some of the porn sites he visits. It’s lots of pretty violent, graphic images of guys being eaten by big monsters. Really intense, and it really freaked me out. Is that something he wants me to do? I’m not completely vanilla, but this seemed really weird. Should I say something to him? – Weirded Out Willies
Dearie, there are so many kinks, fetishes, and fantasies, that it would be impossible to cover them all. What you’re describing sounds like your boyfriend enjoys vore. Vore, or vorarephilia, is a fetish about being consumed or consuming another. It can feature people, monsters, aliens, even plants. It may not be widely discussed, but it is a somewhat popular fetish (especially on this site).
For your particular question, there is nothing wrong or weird about enjoying vore. Fantasies, especially ones like vore where it’s not possible in real life, are best served by art, stories, and imagination. Just because the content is graphic doesn’t mean that he wants these fantasies to happen in real life.
That said, if you’re uncomfortable or confused by it, it may be worth having a conversation about it with him. Try to be open, as he also may feel uncomfortable discussing his private fantasies with you, but this can be a wonderful way to grow some intimacy. There’s also potential to use roleplay to bring elements of these fantasies into your love life, if that ends up of interest. Though don’t think you need to swallow everything he puts in your mouth.
With love,
Ms. Angel Food
