
Hi Ms. Angel,
I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost six months now. It’s been going great. We have a lot of fun, and he’s really hot, and and we’ve got a pretty good sex life. However, I really, really like when my balls hurt. I’ve mostly done this on my own, I have a ball stretcher and have tried a crusher once. We still have great sex, but my orgasms feel so much better when my balls are just tortured. Any ideas on how I can get my boyfriend to try this out with me? – Bummed Ball Busted
Dearie, to start with, I’m happy to send over a pair of high heels to help out.
You deserve a boyfriend who will beat your big balls blue. The secret to satisfying any fetish or kink is to communicate. But it’s not as simple as saying what you want – your boyfriend needs to feel safe and comfortable to.
A good way to start is ask your boyfriend if he has any fantasies he’d like to share with you. They don’t have to be anything you try. Rather, you want to show that you’re open and supportive of his fantasy. Then you can share yours.
Your boyfriend might have some understandable apprehensions when it comes to busting your balls. He may worry that you want to do the same thing to him. Given that he’s got a set too, he can imagine what it would feel like, and might be uncomfortable causing you pain. Reassure him about what you like, what your boundaries are, and always have a safeword ready for both of you.
If he’s okay with it, you could include one of your toys during your sexy fun times. This takes the pressure off of him, and lets him see how much you enjoy the feeling. That can help him get more comfortable savaging your scrotum.
Of course, I’m hopeful you get the pain and torture you crave.
With love,
Ms. Angel Food